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Difficult Births
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Good question Bonzo! Partly it has to do with biology (all the reasons stated above) and partly it's cultural. We expect it to be very difficult, we hear horror stories of how difficult it is, and we aren't taught proper attitudes about going into it.
We go into it with fear, and therefore, we spend hours focusing on pain and fear, rather than focusing on more helpful things like managing our pain. When I gave birth it was definitely difficult, but much less than it could have been if I had been in there the whole time saying to myself "I can't do this, I'll never get through it, etc" - and I think the cultural norm is for women to think about birth in that unhelpful way.