Pregant at 12?

[Sophany]

I'm 12 years old, and I just got myself involved in a sexual relationship with a 17 years old guy. He wasn't wearin a condom, am I going to get pregant? How can I tell my mum about this? I'm scared!

[Hammer]

If it was within the last 72 hrs, you could go to a chemist and get the morning after pill. Get a good friend to go with you for moral support.

Chances are you're not pregnant anyway, but best be safe than sorry.

[georgit79]

And please, please, please, don't do it again. If you're going to be silly enough to start having sex at the age of 12, then for God's sake, use a condom!

[SGKelloe32]

Ok, so first things first, if this guy didn't use a condom, then obviously he isn't taking you into consideration, not only do you have to worry about being pregnant but you are also at risk from a number of sexually transmitted diseases. R u sure this guy isn't just using you? You need to be sure that he is serious about you and responsible enough to think about the consequences of what he is doing with you. If you do feel the need to tell your mum, you first of all have to decide what is going to happen next with this guy, if you feel that you have made a mistake, tell her that. Im sure she loves you and that she would like you to confide in her. But if you dont feel like you can confide in her, you can go to the doctors without your mum finding out, get the morning after pill and ask him to refer you to a GUM clinic to get checked out for STD's, and please wait until you feel ready for another sexual encounter, because it is a very special and wonderful thing when the time is right and ur with the right person. Hope everything works out for you.

[smudge]

At 12 years old, you are under age to have sex & if this boy knows that - he is breaking the law! If you are too scared to tell your Mum, please pluck up the courage to confide in an Auntie or your Doctor first.

[Phantaxus]

hes breaking the law wether he knows it or not.

[smudge]

Phantaxus, as I said, it's against the law if he knew she was only 12 yrs old. She could have told him she was a young looking 16 yrs old if you see what I mean.

[claireking]

hi there, my sister was 14 when she fell pregnant, i was the first one she told. to be honest you need to talk to your mum about it, dont be scared, she may be angry but she will appreciate you being honest to her rather than hiding it.

good luck xx

[xxlizziexx]

ok darling you need to carm down. its not going to do you any good to get really worked up about this. im forteen so i can kind of relate to what your saying. if i was in your situation then i would tell my mum as soon as possible. if you dont then its going to get worse. your mum might be very angry or upset but she would really like it and repect you beacuse you told her. its better you telling her than her finding out. your mum could surport you with the baby if your pregent. and help you make many desisons that would be extremly hard on your own. sit your mum down when she is in a pretty good mood and say ive got something to tell you. dont be to upset but at least im telling you. and then explain the situation and im sure she will understand. just take it one step at a time and im sure it iwll be fine. hope this helps xx

[georgit79]

xxlizziexx, I read your answer to another post as well, and I just want to say that your advice is always amazing. I'm glad you post on this site, you're a real help! And you can give a young point of view, too.

Sophany, have you followed any of this advice?

[xxlizziexx]

awww thank you georgit79 that means alot. not many people have said that so thank you for that : ). shame that i cant use my own adivce for my problems! hehe

yes Sophany i would like to know that have you used any of the advice given to you? have you tld your mum yet?

 

[advicegirl]

there are many thing to do if you are not sure if you are pregant get a pregance test or go to the doctor. but in the law this 17 years old raped you even if don't think he did and he could go to jail. like Hammer said you might not be pregant. and tell your mom just to be on the safe side. you might want to get test for any diease lik AID or STD. BE CAREFUL NEXT TIME.

[j.lo]

Look Sophany u r 12 your not supposed 2 be having sex this guy that your dating just wants 2 have sex you should trust your mom and tell her the truth before she finds out some other way oh and yes u can get pregant!

[okely]

hey dal

just be honest with your mum trust me becuase if you don't then they will never trust you again. I had sex for the first time and safe sex but i am scared that i am going to fall pregant and then everyone wil tease me. If i do fall pregant then i will have to tell my parents and i am only 16years old and i am scared to death so be honest and then see how it goes. 

[mzdivagirl45]

Well 12 is a bit young to be having sexy but mostly likely you are not pregant. Just talk to your mum about that like everybody else is telling you to do Good lUck

[laddee]

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well u should have been more safe coz i am a gyal to n i am in the same problem kno n i am trying to get the pill but no is give it to me but i mite nt even be pregnant so look afta yourself n take more care.

I MAY STILL HAVE LUCK COZ IT HAS ONLI BEEN 18HRS

SO PLEASE PRAY 4 ME

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