Waiting to get pregnant

[Chasingcars]

My husband and I started trying for a baby last April. I got pregnant in July and had an early miscarriage in August. I became pregnant again late last year and miscarried again New Years eve - that time i was about 3 months.
We started trying again in February of this year and still waiting for a positive result. Im usually very upbeat and im very optimistic, but this month i really thought i was pregnant to find out i wasnt, and it just seems a huge huge waiting came. Im struggling a bit wondering if it will ever happen and if it does the chances of everything going ok for a third time. I am 32 years old so mindful i dont have as much time as if i was only in my 20's. Meanwhile everyone around me continues to have babies,and becuase we have been married a year everyones always asking when we will have a baby which makes it more difficult. Close family know what happended last year but i didnt tell work which has made it harder as im not myself at the moment and just feel like i have a huge cloud hanging over me. For anyone else who has been in similar situation i would be interested to hear how you kept going every month when all you want is a baby? I know there is other stuff in life but it doesnt seem like that at the moment...

[samak]

Listen to your head: as you say "there is other stuff in life" and 32 is not late. Relax and it will probably happen when you least expect it.

[rowanwitch]

And if it doesn't happen you will have wasted all those months.....go out, have fun, build a career...just in case chances are things will be fine with time

[lylabellablueyes]

After having 2 miscarriages so soon after the other, have you seeked medical advice and maybe asked them whats going on. I'm not sure of the procedure, but I would maybe see them.

As posters have stated above, just relax and it will happen evetually. you can get pregnant and the time will come where a healthy baby will come.

Goodluck x

[Chasingcars]

Lylabellablueye - yes after the 2nd one i did see my Doctor, and they were not overally concearned. The first MC was a very early one, so early in that if i hadnt of taken a test i probable would have never have known. They said if i were to experience a 3rd MC then they can look into doing tests etc but for now, based on my age and health they are not worried. Just a wwiting came i guess - hopefully 3rd time lucky :)