Early period or pregnant?

[Jbird]

I'm driving myself slightly mad with reading items on the web, but none of them are answering my question, so here goes, I hope you can help.
We are actively trying to conceive. Sadly last year I had a miscarriage and for the last 7 months we've had no joy. Sine the MC my periods have been regular at 35 days. This month I came on 10 days early and it only lasted for 2 days. On the 3rd day there was nothing, then on the 4th day very light spotting, but only on wiping.
Should I consider that I have had my period, or should I still be saying my period is due about now (which would've been day 35)? On Saturday night I had about half hour of really feeling sick, that came on very suddenly, and went away as quickly and I can feel very slight tummy pains.
Any advice, thoughts or personal experience would be gratefully received!
Thank you

[Sqad]

Not a personal experience you understand............but i think that you could be pregnant.

[cathfromsaron]

GP straight away for referral for scan!

all tummy pains and spotting should be investigated to rule out an ectopic!

and if all goes well, congratulations!

[Sqad]

Steady on Cath........ectopic?.....scan.....she is only 4 weeks pregnant if at all......what is the hurry?

[4getmenot]

wo there!before seeing docs etc, take a test, you could well be pregnant. If negative leave for a week and test again. If you still havent come on go for blood tests.

[4getmenot]

as far as I know you still test positive with an eptopic.

[Jbird]

Do we think that I could be preggers then? AND should I still consider my cycle to be the 35 days it was and test if I haven't come on by the end of the week, OR, do we think it could have just been a messed up cycle and early period?

[4getmenot]

take a test tomorrow, and take a test next week. Either way you will find out. If you think the being sick is because you are pregnant then if is you will get a positive

[4getmenot]

was it like a period, it could have been implantation bleeding if 10 days before you were due

[ummmm]

Don't pin your hopes on it. Every now and then a cycle can be messed up for no reason.

Do what 4get says. Take a test. I would leave it until day 35.

[4getmenot]

yes and if your periods are 35 and not the normal 28 then they are a bit messed up anyway. Also more people miscarry early on so teasting early isnt always a good idea, so test at 35 days

[tigwig]

I hope you get the result you want hun. By the way I dont know if you've found a site called the baby centre while you've been on the web. It's great and is full of women just like you and there's a board for people who are 'actively trying'. Fab for support.

[Smowball]

Any news??

[Jbird]

Yup... day 38... negative... thanks for all your support everyone... until next time - I guess it's just 'chin up' x