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[wowyoyo]

im pregnent at 12 what should i do?

[gemma1]

hi, are you ok??? may not be the end of the world have you told anyone yet?? x

[redcrx]

how did you find out?
Is there an adult who you trust enough to talk to?

[yummymum]

You really need to talk to a adult about this, any adult that you can trust, this is not something that will go away and you will find that the sooner you get it out in the open the better you will feel. You maybe scared about what people are going to say but people can surprise you, they are a lot more supportive than yoou expect
Good luck xx Keep us posted

[lilacben]

Im sorry if I sound awful but is this for real?.

[meltoadhall]

if you are certain, tell your mother, if not her then a teacher. you need help and you need it now

[bongerman]

learn how to spell pregnant?

[boobesque]

Bongerman, she is 12, leave off for gods sake

[missyR]

Like the others have said , are you sure you are pregnant? Did you take a test?

[tradey]

firsty you need to go to the doctors,if theres no one in your family you can take then take a friend,you need to tell your parents before its too late,you need to deside with them whats best for you,i think 12 is really abit young,but if its happend then theres nothing we can say apart from go and get help,if you cant talk to your parents then talk to a teacher,good luck

[naz_nomad]

I'm with lilacben on this one ...

[redcrx]

doesnt look like we shall find out naz.

[poopy]

Id say get rid and get an education. 12 years old you should be ashamed of yourself. And I certainly dont want to pay for you and your baby for the rest of my life!

[poopy]

May not be the end of the world - it probably will be when at 14 she has a 1 year old with no dad, cant get a job because she didnt finish shcool and then the baby grows up stealing, robbing, taking drugs or popping out more babies at a stupidly young age. No wonder British People die early from the stress of you young ones! Think about it - you cant afford a baby so you'll be dragging it up not bringing it up. You only get about �16 a week child benefit ya know!

[tradey]

well theres been no reply back to this question so i bet this was a bloody joke,and not a nice one at that

[boobesque]

Bloody hell poopy, not all young mums are bad parents. Talk about sweping generalisation.

[poopy]

in my area they are. there's an overwhelming surge of young girls gettin pregnant to get a house and so they dont have to get a job.

[moominmonsta]

well 'poopy' i personally think your a fukin ****** n u need to get a life n stop bein so narrow minded. fair enuf 12 is too young to get pregnant but theres no reason to be so offensive to the rest of us. ********

[pregnant-s]

poppy! not every young mum crnt cope.she might have a really surportive family.like i do im 17 and 8 weeks pregnant and the babys father isnt around that doesnt mean my baby will get dragged up as you say and neither would hers.if shes ready for it then she should go for it.

[pregnant-s]

omfg! sorry but poppy is bang out of order! she should not be ashamed these things happen .if ppl like u keep telling her to be ashamed she wont want to tell her parents!!

[ganesh]

Of course there is no need to be offensive,and (if it's true) wow needs lots of help.But don't you think it's time we did get angry about this and condemn it for happening?
We have the worst record in Europe for teenage pregnancy and 12 is just ridiculous.
Something is going wrong and it needs to be stopped. I know from experience from my kids schools that the majority of them are sexually active by 14 and often take carefree risks even though they have been told of the dangers.
This 'liberal' attitude from parents and teachers results in this kind of tragedy,and I'm far from being prudish about sex. (they demonstrated how to put on condoms to my sons class and they are all 11-12 yrs old). There is no encouragement to wait until at least 16 before going the whole way!
Offering 'support' after a 12 year old gets pregnant seems to be the thing to do,rather than telling them it's wrong .