Feeling a bit down!

[kevo2k7]

After having my Miscarriage on 25.5.08, i felt upset obviousily, but amazed myself at how well i coped. Only now + the last few days is it really kicking in wot iv just been through! I Went in to town today, thort id treat myself, but every where i turned seemed to be a Pregnant belly!!! It doesnt help that i know 5 people due around the time i would of been due (Dec) + 1 of them i work with! Me + my partner have argued a bit since it happened + this isnt helping how im feelin! Just feel really down at the moment... Sorry for being all doom + gloom, just felt i had to get it off my chest + this felt the easiest way.... x x

[cris r]

So sorry for your loss kevo but you do need to talk about this with familyand friends. Your partner he must also be grieving you have to be strong together dont keep it to yourself. tk care x

[I Love Snow]

I've had four miscarriages and was in the same position with everywhere i turned someone was pregnant including 2 of my cousins. It kicks in at different times. You will probably find that you'll be fine for ages and then something else will set you off. I tried to distance myself from everyone including my husband the first time which i think made me worse looking back. I didn't realise how much he was hurting to. Unfortunatly my cousin had a miscarriage as well and then i felt like i wasn't the only one who was suffering. Which might sound strange but it is one of those things that really isn't spoken about. Chin up and you'll get there. After 4 i'm now 29 weeks its been a long road but hopefully with a happy ending.

[andrea81]

Don't be sorry, sharing your feeling, albeit to strangers is helpful. I know I had a lot of support of the regulars on here!

I am sorry for your loss, I think you need to give yourself time to grieve. Even though you say you coped well initially, you still need time to come to terms with this. It may be difficult for you and you partner and no doubt you will argue if feelings are raw, but remeber that you both need eachother and this has happened to the two of you!

A friend of mine had a misscariage and was advised to wait for 3/6 months, needless to say she didn't and got pregnant only to have the same problems and possibly another misscariage, so advice would be to give you body plenty of time to recover before trying again!

chin up and take care x x x

[jane1098]

i think it just depends on what kind of miscarriage you had.
i had a miscarriage in which my body rejected everything and fell pregnant again a month later. everything went fine (she's now three).
a friend of mine had a molar pregnancy and had to wait a year before she could try again. she went on to had a healthy baby 4 months after the year.

hopefully the docs have given you the all clear to try again
(if you're ready that is and in your own time).

take care of your self kevo and don't give up hope. xx :-)

[Trixy_89]

I had a miscarriage a couple of days ago and i was due in december. My partner tried to take me out but just like you, everywhere i looked i saw baby shops and pregnant bellys. I have work today and they all new i was pregnant, i just dont want to face them.

[yobanfa]

Hi kevo2k7
i know what you are going through as i had a miscarriage as well, on my husbands birthday of all days, and i was the same as you, where ever you go all you will see is pregnant women, you think you are doing well then wham, something happenes or you think something and all the pain comes back and if you're like me you want to start crying again, you might not think it now but it does get easier with time, i found talking to my friend who had also had a miscarriage i really big help, and a started to write down my feeling about it also helped as i got back to it and add to it whaen i feel down, you did the best thing coming on here and getting it of your chest, Xxx