Oh bless you!!! well those kits might be very useful for you then, as you can pinpoint when you ovulate. try not to worry if things don't happen immediately, but if you smoke or drink quite a lot, try and ease up on that, and keep your weight under control. Remember, it can take a while to get pregnant even if you're very fit and healthy, and I doubt if your doctor'd try and help until you'd been trying for a baby for at least a year - but if your heart's set on it, I wish you both well.