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She told me about the money because we thought that the 2005 Will was the only one. I'm guessing when she went to the solicitors they produced this new one with the codicil. Her thoughts then changed. That's when I didn't hear from her and I'm guessing when she didn't want to send me a copy of the Will. Because now there was a new Will.
I have nothing of my Fathers so I cannot check reciepts or Cheque stubs but good idea other wise.
The 2005 Will was witnessed and finalised, very strange, I agree, that a codicil was done in 2009 and added to the new Will.
I would love to just get on with my life and forget it but I know that my Dad doted on his Grandaughter and that he would do anything for her. The 2005 Will mirrors what he would tell me when he was alive. He told me how much money I would get and also the trust fund that was set up. This new Will is so different I just have this feeling that something isn't right. The icing on the cake is that she now wants to disown us both, we were all very close.