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Why do any of it - because its what's expected. I am part of a family, a large family. Brothers, sister, parents, children, children's partners and so on and so on. I put on a show same as everybody else, buying presents, giving them out, opening up my bottles of wine, tins of biscuits, slippers, books, smellies, etc etc. Usual christmas dinner, usually around at my house, with me doing the dinner.
To be honest when I wrote my post, I thought there would be loads of people feeling exactly the same as me. I am surprised that some of you actually enjoy it all.
The house decorated with lights on the outside, seem to be shouting out "look at me - I'm having a happier Christmas than you are - cos my lights are brighter than yours". So next-doors rush out and buy even brighter lights, and an even bigger Father Christmas to attach to their chimney. - Ugh !!