Bit of an embarrasing question?

[momcj]

This is rather embarrasing but ive been seeing a guy slowly for a while, after a long time alone after splitting with my daughters dad. So i havent , well been intimate with a guy for a while! It feels like its going that way with this guy and i am so nervous! Its like being a virgin all over again?! How can i curb my nerves????I think i may have to get drunk!!

[thenry]

I would always recommend drinking to excess.

[tinkerbell23]

When the time comes you will be having too much fun to be nervous!! Enjoy it!!

;0> ok mabye a little wine x

[Mamyalynne]

Don't rely on drinking to excess, a glass or two may relax you both though - just go with the flow if it feels right.

[queenofmean]

I'm with Tinks on this one, just kick back and go with the flow you'll be fine

[cupid04]

Have a nice candle- lit meal with a glass of wine or two
Snuggle up together on the sofa and just enjoy each others company.
Kiss and cuddle each other and take it from there.
There is no rush, especially if you're both feeling bruised from previous relationships. Hope everything works out for you. Cupid04. xx

[momcj]

thank u for ur replies. To be honest i didnt think i would find anyone again, sort of resigned myself to that fact, so come as a bit of surprise and while lovely, totally scares me!!!

[Jemisa]

He's probably a bit nervous too & is asking advice in another thread...

Have a great time, enjoy each other.

Jem

[Mamyalynne]

If it is right it will feel natural, if not give it time and just be happy . Good luck and much happiness to you ♥

[momcj]

thank u x

[Booldawg]

'He's probably a bit nervous too & is asking advice in another thread... '

no, wont be any of the men on here. she's not put out on the first date.

[sotelme]

if you have feelings for this guy things will happen automatically!! You dont have to get drunk you might regret it later. I was in the same situation as you and now I am happy with the guy. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. Honesty is always best!