What Would You Do

[Connemmara]

My sister is just after telling me about a lady she met in a supermarket last week and I will try and make it short. Her daughter (white) is marrying an indian this year with a full blown white wedding. She has been with him for 14 years and 2 daughters.

However the lady in question called to her daughter's house and daughter was not in - the indian man called her up to the bedroom (ie that is his future mother in law) and he was lying in bed with himself exposed and asked her to touch him up. She is devastated - she has not told her daughter - she does not know what to do. We all know what she should do of course tell her daughter but from my end of listening I don't think the daughter will believe her. What a very sad situation. What would you do?

[Connemmara]

Well as you can see mixed answers - no to jake-the-peg - apparently she has 4 white daughters who are with indians - so definitely not against mixed marriages. I just wanted an opinion cos I couldn't give one to my sister so it will be between the immediate families. All I can say Thank God it is not in mine. thanks for your answers anyway. bye for now.

[lcg]

i think i would have got close enough to take a bite and then have him explain himself.....there's no getting out of that!

[Booldawg]

suppose it makes a change from most mens attitude towards their mother-in-law.

[Jenarry]

My bf did something similar to my best friend and our son was only about 1 year old at the time. She was so worried about rocking the boat and the fuss it would cause and maybe put our relationship and little family(and the relationship between me and her) on the rocks so she kept schtum.
A year or two later he dumped me and it seemed like a bolt out of the blue for me but it turned out he had been cheating on me. I really wished my friend had told me about what he did to her at the time as it may have opened my eyes to this side of him which I knew nothing about and given me the heads up. It turns out he had a history this behaviour and cheating.
This man's fiancee needs to know about this. He will probably talk his way out of it but at least she will be in the picture.