1. Find other ways to satisfy him that wont leave you uncomfortable and unable to walk straight and sore for a couple of days, and him to you too...maybe something you like...your wildest erotic fantasies......Mrs Bear has a vivid imagination and sometimes even I , yes I, am astounded at what she suggests, and as long as I dont have to swing on the bedroom lights, am quite happy to oblige :0)
2. Talk to him about it and tell him to be a bit more gentle, maybe like Sir Steve Redgrave with his strokes, and suggest he perhaps gets a vision of Dot Cotton in his mind, as he becomes erect and excited, so he may become a tad smaller in size and width.....works for me! :0)
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3. Watch Prisoner Cell Block H and become a lesbian ( I would like it stated that I love Lesbians especially those who have allowed me in my dark past to participate )
Good Luck, Jane :0)
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