Should I Kiss A Guy I'm Not Dating?

[muchloveanon]

I'm interested in him, and I'm pretty sure he's into me as well. We cuddle while watching movies, hold hands if there's a casual opportunity, and he puts his hand on my knee or thigh all the time when we're sitting together. Neither of us has acknowledged our feelings, but I want him to be my first kiss. I want him to know I'm interested and that I don't want him to go after another girl. Any advice out there? Girls who have experienced this kind of situation before? Thanks for any and all replies.

[-SharonA-]

Tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way as you.

[Cloverjo]

So he's a friend you go to movies with -maybe with other friends - but you're not actually dating?
If you cuddle and hold hands it sounds as if he likes you and a kiss might happen. Why don't you suggest you both go out alone one time - this is assuming you're with others all the time now - and see what happens?

[Sqad]

\\\\Should I Kiss A Guy I'm Not Dating?\\\

It could be a misplaced act on your part, but providing that he is wearing a condom I would have thought that it would be quite safe.

[1ozzy]

Sounds a bit like you are both shy.

Go girl, make the first move!

Some males are afraid to because they may be accused of "only wanting one thing".

[1ozzy]

Somebody had to degrade things, hey Sqad ;-)

[Sqad]

1ozzy

\\\\Some males are afraid to because they may be accused of "only wanting one thing".\\\

No! really? Some men are really swines eh!

[1ozzy]

Yep!!

[murraymints]

oink oink !!

[douglas9401]

I'd check to see if he's had his cootie shots before going that far.

[rsvp]

How old are you and how old is he?

[murraymints]

..isn't it strange that "new" members post a first question in the sexual fantasy spectre ??? just saying ..:

[1ozzy]

'Tis Minty, but who knows for sure ;-).

[murraymints]

hmmmmm...

[1ozzy]

Keep thinking :-/