My Beloved Mum Died Today - Please Help Me.

[jambutty]

I don't know how I'm going to cope.

[jambutty]

I will cling to the memories Mamya, but that look and the way her breathing changed will stay with me forever. I hope she is in Dad's arms now.

[Smowball]

Jambutty I don't know anything about your lovely mum or what she was in hospital for, but she will have known that you were there right to the very end xx

[cupid04]

Your mum is with your dad now and free from pain. Your mum wouldn't want you to be sad. It's very early days yet...you will go through all kinds of mixed feelings. This is normal. I'm thinking of you. xx

[Barmaid]

Jambutty, my condolences on your sad loss.

Understandably you feel distraught at the moment. My advice is to take each day as it comes. There is no time limit on grief. I wish you the strength to get through the coming weeks.

[jambutty]

Oh I do hope so smo. I want her back, we still have so much to share. I'm going now, I'm in such a mess.

Thank you again everybody xx

[mallyh]

bereavement counselling may help you through this awful time xx

[ladybirder]

jammy arranging your mum's funeral, the last thing you can do for her, will carry you through the next few days and keep you busy. It will give you something to focus on and because you are doing it for her, you will find the strength to carry on. Bless you.

[ummmm]

Bereavement counselling is not instantly available, sadly.

Let people help you, Jam. If someone offers to take your kids (if you have them) let them! If someone wants to pop and see you, don't care if you look a mess, don't care if your house is a mess, they are there to make sure you're ok, not judge.

I can't emphasis enough that expressing your emotions is essential for your well being.

You will cope xx

[murraymints]

just looked in to see how you are Jam...night night..xx

[Maydup]

...... looking in again today jambutty to say that I am thinking of you.
How have you been?

[jambutty]

Thank you mm and Maydup. We have to go and sort out the funeral today. I can't explain the aching feeling of utter loss inside me, but I know some of you will understand. Can my beloved Mum really be dead ??? I keep wanting to ring her up and share my pain, ridiculous isn't it ......

[Traci66]

Jam, I really feel for you and know what you are going through, I lost my husband two days ago, he was only 61 and I'm wondering all the time how am I going to cope with never seeing him again. Thinking of you Traci x

[murraymints]

Jam ..you will cope however difficult it seems..as I did..I am still struggling after10 months and expect to do so for a while to come..but..I can get through a day without tears now...

Traci...my heart is aching for you xx

Both take care..we are always here for you xx

[jambutty]

Sorry to hear your very sad news Traci - 61 is young to die. It's horrendous isn't it, losing your loved ones, absolutely horrendous.

Thank you again mm xx