>>You could have applied to the court for an order for sale and division of the property
The problem was that both my children were still living at home even though they were over 18.
I could have forced the sale but then they would have had to move to a new, much worse area and I was not prepared to put them though that (they already blamed me for the break up for the marriage as I moved out, even though it was their mum who was the alcoholic!).
Anyway, I wanted some money to build a loft conversion on the house I was buying so it suited me at the time.
Divorces are a right mess and sadly it is never mice for any member of the family.
One of my sons, who is now nearly 40, still has a chip on his shoulder about me leaving the family home, partly because it was him who found his mother dead in bed.
Life eh!