Infidelity

[Chalton100]

How do I catch my cheating husband

[douglas9401]

By the 'nads?

[albaqwerty]

apart from Dougie's perfectly reasonable answer, how do you know he is cheating?

[bednobs]

if u know es heating, why bother to ctch him?

[andy-hughes]

Talk to him - then take it from there.

[Hopkirk]

Are you a same sex couple, or did you make a mistake when you created the new AB account?

[snowshoe1]

HOW DO YOU KNOW FOR SURE HE IS CHEATING ON YOU?DOES HE COME HOME WITH LIP STICK ON HIS COLLAR,OR SMELLING OF PERFUME.IF YOU THINK HE IS CHEATING HAVE A TALK WITH HIM,AND JUST ASK HIM.

[snowshoe1]

IF YOU THINK HE IS CHEATING ON YOU, JUST ASK HIM.WHY DO YOU THINK HE IS CHEATING? DOES HE COME HOME LATE,HAVE LIP STICK ON HIS COLLAR? THE BET THING TO DO, IS JUST ASK HIM

[-SharonA-]

Snow, you're shouting!!

Just ask. If you're still not satisfied, state your reasons and listen to his replies.

[NoMercy]

From someone who has been there, there's no point asking your husband if he is cheating. If your husband is anything like my ex, he'll just lie and lie and lie and lie and lie.

Have you noticed any change in behaviour? Sudden guarding of his phone, wearing aftershave and hair gel to go out, suddenly arranged a night out with "Trev" (funny, he's never mentioned Trev before!)?

I found out when my intended sent two messages to me that were clearly for someone else. He still tried to lie his way out of it, but I told him to just give up lying through his teeth. There was a long silence, heavy breathing and then a confession.

In hindsight I let him get away with lying for weeks and making me think I was paranoid and crazy. I should have just given him an ultimatum when I first became suspicious.

If I were you, I'd tell your husband to come clean now or clear off.

[Islay]

If you suspect he’s cheating confront him, but be sure first as it could ruin any chance you’re marriage has of survival

[andy-hughes]

snoeshoe 1 - // ... HAVE LIP STICK ON HIS COLLAR? ... //

Clue, it's 2018, not 1968!!!!