How Come He Keeps Trying To Talk To Me When He Knows I Hate Him?

[hellofriendxoxo]

I've known this guy since Gr.9 and he was complete jerk and he was like this type of person you don't want to be around with. I've always try to avoid him but one day he ends up talking to me and I was going to ignore him but I thought it was rude to ignore him. He thought we were friends but I was just a "fake" friend to him. I really couldn't stand him but I'm that type of who can't hate a person because I dislike hating people. He ended up breaking my breaking point and that's where one day I completely shut him off and stopped talking to him. I didn't give him the reason why I already told a bunch of friends why I don't like them and they already told him why I stopped talking to him but he just wouldn't accept the fact that I hated him. Before I stopped talking to him he had a crush on me. He was going to confess on me on the last day of school but he was interrupted by my friend (I love her for that but I was little sad because I wasn't able to tell him why I hated him and give him the reasons why). In class he would tell this stupid thing to everyone over and over again saying "I really liked this girl, but for some reason she stopped talking to me and I don't know why she stopped talking to me". Few months after I stopped talking to him he would always try to talk to me but I would just ignore him and shut him off. He would look really *** after that and when I'm around he would talk *** about me. I don't care if he talks *** around me but does he really have to try talking to me. I feel like he isn't getting the point and if he trys to talk to me should I straight give him the reasons why? I'm only asking this because I need advice, What did I do wrong please be honest with me, this is the first time a person wouldn't accept the fact that I don't like them. I've done the same thing with other people I didn't like and a few had a crush on me and they just move on why can't he? Should I report him? Please ask for information if you need some.

[scorpiojo]

Report him to who?

[hellofriendxoxo]

to a teacher or the office.

[scorpiojo]

You can't report someone for talking to you.

Just tell him you don't like him.

[hellofriendxoxo]

I've done that many times but he just keeps trying to talk to me and he knows the fact that I don't like him.

[waterboatman]

Just tell him straight that you don't like him and don't want him talking to you, or to be anywhere around you and to leave you alone. Tell him if he doesn't stop you will report him for harassment. A bit harsh, but he doesn't seem to get the point.

[woofgang]

oh and walk away when he tries to talk to you.....but you know what? to me you sound like a tease "oh I'm so lovely everybody wants me to like them"

[Old_Geezer]

I tend to skim massive blocks of text, at best. I suspect many do, or don't bother at all. Paragraphs make for easier reading/comprehension.

Seems you are keener to be rude & ignore him than to have a serious conversation with him. That can be misinterpreted as playing hard to get. If he wants to be close to you and you aren't interested then discuss it maturely. Then, if he continues you could threaten reporting him for harassment; but I think it a little strong if all that's happened is that he's got overly fond of you. Be consistently clear that you're not interested. Don't just ignore. Give it time to sink in.

[AuntLydia]

I've always found 'get lost' works. In other words a short sharp rebuttal ( telling him straight). IF he is still bothering you after you have made it quite plain you want nothing to do with him then have a word with your teacher or another adult.

[DarceyK123]

Why do you hate him so much?

I think if someone used to ralk to me and then stopped i might like to know why.

You sound very young, are you sure you're not secretly loving all this?

[mallyh]

when you say he's a jerk is it because he isn't dressed in the latest fashion or that he isn't good looking enough for you .

[kvalidir]

You sound to be very simplistic and as Darcy says as if you're loving all the attention.
'Oh this guy, I totally hate him, but he has a crush on me and won't leave me alone, whatever shall I do?'
Grow up. Meet him for a coffee and explain to him that you have no interest in him as either a friend or as a lover and ask him to please refrain from speaking to you again, and give him the reasons why ( as long as they are reasons like he's a racist, homophobe etc and not simply because you don't like his haircut and his clothes have fashion victim written all over them).
Part on good terms but make it clear you don't want contact with him, but tbh I have no idea why this is even an issue, lots of people talk to me I don't like, it's life.

[hellofriendxoxo]

I hated him because he’s very racist, calls people stupid when they get the answer wrong, selfish, doesn’t care about his friends, only cares for himself. He bullies people who are overweight or even ugly, rude, he brags that he’s rich and ***. He hates LBGT people, When it comes to a group assighment he makes his parther do all the work and he only does part of it. I would go on but it’s just too much

[hellofriendxoxo]

When I said he’s jerk I don’t mean that.

[hellofriendxoxo]

O I guess I typed it like ‘I was loving the attention’ The problem with me is that I’m not good at starting converstations and when I do it makes me feel uncomfortable but since everyone is telling me to go talk. I guess I should.

[Theland]

You still here?

[Cloverjo]

You could just say to him what you've just told us. That you don't like him because he's a bully, racist, rude etc. I don't see how he can come back from that.

[hellofriendxoxo]

No I’m not secretly loving this at all.

[Mamyalynne]

He'll get bored.

[Canary42]

//// He hates LBGT people ////

There's your answer then - tell him you're one, and set him up to "catch" you snogging another girl - Simple.

[hellofriendxoxo]

Since everyone is telling me to talk to him, What happens if he can’t accept the fact I hate him? That’s why I asked this question because idk what to do next, or should I tell a adult?