About Dating?

[Linkinparkrocks]

Should you expect some one to be attracted to you if you are very obese not attractive or have many things going for you like for example people I dated in past should I of actually expected them to like me still or act surprised when they wanted everyone else more

[Mamyalynne]

There are no rules about attraction, it either happens or it doesn't.

Just get out and meet people.

[Old_Geezer]

You should have expected those who were attracted to you to be attracted to you, and those who weren't attracted to you to not be attracted to you. There's a variety of people out there and no accounting for taste.

[woofgang]

i think the first stage is liking yourself and liking your own company.

[nailit]

//Should you expect some one to be attracted to you if you are very obese//

Should I expect someone to be attracted towards me because I have a bald head??
Some people find obese people attractive, some dont. Some people find baldies attracitve, some dont.
Be comfortable in yourself first.
Someone that comfortable with themselves is ALWAYS attractive in one way or another.

[Mozz71]

I'm a big bloke LPR, and I've done okay in the past, despite my own hang ups about the way I look. As long as you don't listen to the nasty folk, you'll be fine. There is somebody for everybody.

[Jordyboy9]

https://youtu.be/z-2_OstpR5c

[Apc2604]

//Someone that comfortable with themselves is ALWAYS attractive in one way or another.//

Absolutely right. And a quiet confidence is also good.

[woofgang]

and if you don't feel, the confidence and happy in your own skin-ness then learn to fake it....seriously...its what most other people will be doing :)

[BagPussAA]

As long as you are happy with who you are as a person and are comfortable in your skin then you will be attractive to people regardless of what you look like. As others have said, there is no law or rules to attraction. There is no rule saying that if you are over a certain weight you will never be loved.
I used to think like you, that because of my weight I would always be alone, but with the help of a friend, I became comfortable in my own skin and I have found love with a man who loves my curves and does not see my weight as an issue. He loves me for me and doesnt see what I used to in the mirror. He thinks I'm beautiful and so I am.