My Fiance Seems To Be Pulling Away From Me Gets Mad When I Mention It

[Metalgirl72]

My fiance and I have been together for 6 years. I put it all in a nutshell, I have been noticing and feeling that he is pulling away from me. Not being as affectionate not being as complementary just not himself. He could tell it was bothering me when we were texting one day and asked me to tell him what was on my mind. Very reluctantly I did. And as he usually does, he got defensive and angry. Telling me that he is not doing that, he told me to get bent, all kinds of other mean things. Two nights after that happened he came into town, he travels for his job I used to go on the road with him but recently decided to come and stay home, when he came into town we stayed at a hotel close to my son's house where I live and yes we slept together and yes it was kind of weird because he talked the whole time but I didn't have much to say I was still hurt and bothered. Because he acted like no big deal. After he dropped me off his texting is declined with me how he text is sort of just to the matter and cold and he is no longer sending me good morning or evening text like he usually did. I just want to know what I need to do I've never been through this before

[Canary42]

Sounds to me like he's got another girl (or the seven-year-itch) - in your shoes I would dump him, but only you can decide.

[Patsy33]

Sounds as though relationship has gone stale, from his point of view.. It happens.
Might be a good time to move on.

[Diannegbw]

Sounds like it’s time to move on. I wish you the best.

[Khandro]

[Peter Pedant]

sounds like you need another different boy firend

[Debby22]

I discovered my husband's cheating habit in a rather funny way. Prelude to that time I had never thought of him as someone who could cheat because he appeared gentle and calm. No part of him suggests he was seeing anyone else at a time beause he was an introvert who basically shuttles between his office, home and church. He rarely has time for other engagements because of the demanding nature of his job. He is a medical doctor and he works in the surgery and operation unit.
On my birthday, he decided to give me a special treat at a top-notch eatery in the city, but, the treat however didn't go how he planned. Everything went wrong when we sat to order for our meal and one of the eatery attendants dropped a wristwatch he forgot on the table during his previous visit. He thanked the attendant and immediately hid the watch in his pocket but I caught a glance of the wristwatch and I was quite sure he does not have such type of wristwatch, or at best, he doesn't wear the wristwatch.
I asked if the wristwatch was his but he fidgeted with his response. Immediately, I knew something was wrong and I requested to see the wristwatch which he refused to bring out.
After I persisted for a while, he brought out the wristwatch and I discovered it was a female's watch. He said it belonged to one of his co-workers whom they've once visited the eatery together.
At that moment, the treat didn't really feel special to me again. I couldn't contain my emotions but I tried to be as comported as I could be. I asked if there was anything else he wasn't telling me but he said no.
I was so unsatisfied with his response because I knew he was always ready to give me explanation to everything, except this. I contacted trackware007 @gmail.com To help check his recent activities on Email and other social media accounts. I discovered the name of the co-worker was Maria, a young nurse who just got employed in his hospital and they've been seeing each other for a while. Apparently, the wristwatch belongs to her and she forgot it on the table during one of their visits..
I was really devastated when I discovered my husband's cheating habit. We have been married for 13 years and I thought I knew him so we'll but everything just seemed like an illusion to me. I confronted him with my facts and he apologised, he cried profusely and begged for my forgiveness. He told me the girl was a young intern at their hospital who led him on and he fell for lust. However, he told me he was ready to make amends and he had stop seeing the lady already since she left their hospital some weeks ago. It was really a tough process accepting him back but that was the best decision I could take. Many people mocked me but i'm glad that i couldn't have made a better decision than I did. Since the incident, he has become a better and more loving husband. In December, we would be celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary.