Treating Your Adult Children.

[hannah40]

Now I’m in Spain in an apartment visiting our Daughter who is working in Spain for the year.
Since being here we have paid for everything. She could have stayed in her house that she shares but chose to stay in the apartment with us. We have provided her with all her meals drinks snacks ,excursions,just like you do for your children.
She is in Spain working surely there comes a time when she could pay for something. I even paid for the Uber to take her see her friends.
Do you all pay for your adult children continually?or is there a cut off point.
She didn’t seem too keen on take away pizza today so I said well go buy yourself something then and leave your dad and me to do what we want to do the way she looked at me was like how dare I think she was going to buy something herself alone ,well I said you live here we don’t. I’m sure you know how it all works.

[Vagus]

The way we look at it, Hannah, is, we’d rather enjoy treating our children while we’re around to see them (and us) enjoy it than wait till we’re gone and can’t.
Ours all know the value of money and work very hard, as I’m sure your daughter does, but it gives us great pleasure to be in a position to help out when needed.