Is It Normal To Feel Silly Now?

[abbeylee90]

 When I was in school I use to ring my school crush alot, banged his car door to get his attention and he pretended to be deaf

[barry1010]

There are so many things that I have done that makes me curl up inside with embarrassment if they cross mind, even decades later.

It's normal to feel that you have been silly 

[Moorea7]

That was a long time ago, Abbey!  Just one of those silly things.
How did Mum's op. go today?

[Barsel]

Abbey, sorry to butt in, but I would like to ask Moorea how did she change her avatar.

I used to change mine quite often but the process seems to have changed and I can't figure it out.

[Barsel]

I'm sure most of us did silly things to get noticed when we were younger.

One girl in the office where I worked as a teenager brought in some mistletoe one year and tried to get the good-looking accountant to kiss her, but her luck was out as he turned her down flat.😚

[jourdain2]

Yes it  is normal - we all do silly things when children - then we grow up.  I still cringe when remembering planting a smacker on an unsuspecting lad when I was about 10 and then running off in embarrassment andnever speaking to him again!

Fortunately we grow up.  But we can still make silly mistakes.

[Moorea7]

22.08 Barsel  ... You have no idea how I do this and that to change the Avatar until I do get it right so I am sure there will be some more technically minded Abers who will help you - hope you understand. x  I go via WordPress.

[Barsel]

Thanks, Moorea, I can't understand why it has completely changed. I used to have loads of pictures there to use and they've all disappeared. I'll keep trying as I want to change it to a Christmassy one.

[Karamia]

Was he old enough to own a car?? 

How old were you when you did this?

[Moorea7]

 Barsel 22.33  I've asked Arksided to help you - he changes his avatar from time to time.x

[Barsel]

Thanks again, I'll look out for it. x

[Arksided]

Barsel, I had to start from scratch myself, I'm not even sure the link will work: https://gravatar.com/

Do remember the E-Mail Address has to be the same as the one you use for AnswerBank.

[Arksided]

Abbey, just look back on them as fond memories, we all have them.

[jno]

you can feel silly if you want to, but we should all forgive ourselves for stuff we did at school. We were only kids, for heaven's sake, and learning.

[Barsel]

Thanks, Arky, I'll try again.x

[Arksided]

Barsel, You're welcome... A pain I agree mine disapeared into the ether aswell. Good Luck.

[andres]

How old were you at the time?

[Old_Geezer]

Everyone does things they would rather they hadn't.  Learn to forgive yourself and forget, otherwise you're in for a lifetime of stress over irrelevant past events.

[abbeylee90]

Yes I was 15 and he was 17