Do I Message Him Or Wait For Him?

abbeylee90 | 07:35 Fri 05th Jan 2024 | Family & Relationships

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I meant to be going on my date on Saturday after bottomless brunch but do I message or wait for him?

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Abbey, dont let someone who let you down get you down. He is obviously not right for you and you deserve much better.Forget him. His loss. Dust yourself down, and tell yourself that you don't mind and he doesn't matter.

21:42 Sat 06th Jan 2024

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Moorea7

Have you already sorted out a meeting place?

abbeylee90

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No going for a drink don't know where

Moorea7

I guess no harm in posting a brief message as to time and location as he may be waiting to hear when you will be finished with lunch.

abbeylee90

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Brunch is booked for 1 so I told maybe between 5-6

Moorea7

Is this a first date, Abbey, or have you met before?

Redhelen72

Not sure if its a good idea to go on a date after a bottomless brunch.

If you have not messaged him to confirm tomorrow plans then I would send ONE message along the lines of 'hi, looking forward to tomorrow - what time are you thinking of'

If he does not respond DO NOT chase him

abbeylee90

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He does always reply but yes not sure if I'll feel like drinks after bottomless brunch

abbeylee90

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Moore once

davebro3

Bottomless Brunch sounds like a bad idea, same as "All you can eat" - encourages excess.

Is it served at a topless bar?

Redhelen72

Depends on what is more important to you really - a possible relationship or a bottomless brunch

abbeylee90

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I've already told him and he said he would meet after bottomless drinks

Moorea7

You've been to a bottomless brunch before, Abbey - did you feel you had one too many cocktails? If so, as has been said, maybe put the date off till another day.

abbeylee90

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It was ok

Redhelen72

If you have already spoken to him and arranged saturday night - what is the point of this question?

davebro3

apparently asking if & who should confirm the arrangement

abbeylee90

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I'm saying if I haven't heard from him should I message him