Do You Think I Am Being Jealous Or Protecting My Friend?

[abbeylee90]

So this girl I mentioned on here was a loose cannon and don't keep friends. Ever since new years eve when we all went she said they clicked but what I didn't realise is that the one who was a loose cannon booked had booked a table for just me and my friend at first and she stays over my really good friends everytime we all go out. I'm worried she getting to friendly with her and until Friday they hadn't seen each other since NYE. I'm abit worried about my good friend getting to friendly with her and hurting her considering I've showed her messages I've shown from her and she even said when we out last year she can't understand how tight she was

[abbeylee90]

Yes I'm still upset about driving lesson and of course I don't enjoy being upset.

Only if she told me if something went wrong. The other girl was crying all night about this guy.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, to get through (as painlessly as possible), you have to let some things go - ie things that you can't change (like your error with the driving lesson) or things that aren't under your control (like the relationships of others, in this case the two friends). 

[abbeylee90]

My 2 friends making friends with each other but I'm sure mu one friend can handler her

[newmodarmy]

Abbey, do you ever read your posts to check they make sense before you post them. You got top grades in GCSE English and yet you post stuff such as "I thought if have alot more going for me when I was younger." and " Ever since new years eve when we all went she said they clicked but what I didn't realise is that the one who was a loose cannon booked had booked a table for just me and my friend at first and she stays over my really good friends everytime we all go out. "

Please just read and check before you submit. You should get better answers if we can understand what you're asking

[naomi24]

Abbey, I remember you telling us about that girl.  You've told your friend you're not keen and that's all you can do so leave it now.  She'll find out for herself.

[abbeylee90]

I don't know how much more I can explain other than one friend is a loose cannon and has lost of friends the other is really close friend. The one friend who is a loose a cannon asks to take pics all night and crying over a guy and my other friend said she was dampening the mood but one who was a loose cannon went back with her after .

[naomi24]

Abbey, people will do what they want to do.  You can't change that.  You can still be friends with your good friend.  

[abbeylee90]

Yeah obviously going to let it stop out friendship

[newmodarmy]

Some on here must understand what you're trying to say abbey but I don't so can't offer advice this time apart from saying you should focus on your issues (see your doctor and push for a dyspraxia and ASD assessment plus mental health support ;continue counselling; confide fully with your Mum and ask her for help) and put aside things that don't directly involve you.

[abbeylee90]

*not

[naomi24]

Good.  Don't worry about it.

[lankeela]

Newmod I believe Abbey once said she got an A when asked about exams but don't remember it being GCSE.  Surely you have learned by now that your long demanding answers are not the way to communicate with her - I am sure she skims over and only picks out certain words.  This is part of her condition, having problems communicating so any complicated posts are going to go right above her head.  To Abbey problems like this are just as important as finding the right job, or having enough money to live on.  

[newmodarmy]

Your 'answer' was longer than mine Lankeela. 

 Maybe we should ask Abbey whether we should just stop and leave you to give her your response on these threads

[lankeela]

My response was to you not to Abbey.

[abbeylee90]

In what way?

[naomi24]

Redhelen, that's unkind.  You don't know abbey and you don't know her friend.  

[Tuvok]

As has been asked many times before, take time to read what you have written before you submit it.  Also use pintuation eg. comma ,      full stop .    etc.

[elliemay1]

I'm glad Redhelen's comment was removed as I found it so unkind

[Redhelen72]

I answered her question without long or difficult words which is how we are told to respond. 
 

Thank you Naomi you have succeeded where others have failed!