Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?

[abbeylee90]

I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?

[abbeylee90]

Scorpio as much as I can.

[scorpiojo]

Good

[abbeylee90]

He speaks to me with very vague words 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, which 'he' are you talking about now? And what are 'vague words'?

[bednobs]

you speak to  us with very vague words.  it's irritating, isnt it?

[scorpiojo]

😂

[abbeylee90]

The one I liked takes a day to reply and using little sentence.

[Hazlinny]

Sounds as though you might be well suited, Abbey 😊

[abbeylee90]

Well it seems like if he don't make the effort.

[newmodarmy]

"Well it seems like if he don't make the effort."

Is that what you meant to type abbey, as it doesn't make sense. 

[abbeylee90]

Basically and not asking to meet up

[newmodarmy]

OK...but what you said doesn't make sense...it's garbled.

[abbeylee90]

Basically he doesn't make much effort for me to speak or meet up so is it normal to wonder why he even bothering

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, maybe you should give up on POF - none of the guys you've met/been in contact with have matched your expectations? I know you didn't expect to meet The One  immediately, but you're maybe being unrealistic expecting relationships/decent relationships to form within a week or two of meeting someone. 

[scorpiojo]

He's not interested, Abbey. 

[abbeylee90]

That why I'm wondering if I should block him.

[scorpiojo]

Why bother blocking him if he's not messaging you? Just let it go.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you seem very keen to block people, especially those who don't keep in touch! If the guy is not interested, do you think blocking him will make him suddenly think you could be the love of his life?  You could just let things fizzle out, or you could send the guys a short, polite message, saying you are moving on now.

[douglas9401]

Maybe give him some sugah.

[abbeylee90]

The bearded guy I don't like him saying damm all the Time.