Do You Think I Should Tell My Friends Sister That He Said He Dated An 11 Year Old A Long Time Ago?

[Cindy1302]

This was in 2013 when we were both 19. I forgot why he brought it up, but he said that the youngest girl he dated was 11. I have no idea how old he was when he dated her. I kind of freaked out on him when he told me, but he kept denying it was wrong. I never really thought about it until a couple of years ago, and asked if he remembers telling me that. He said yes. When  I asked him if he thinks it's wrong, he said yes. Well, i told his mother anyway who is his legal guardian. She was slightly upset that I waited so long to tell her, but she thanked me for telling her
 The reason I even said anything is because his sister has a young daughter that hes around often. Close to a year ago, I decided to tell his sister. I know her a little bit. She works at Walmart and I say hi when I see her. I'm not even sure if she knows who I am though Anyways, I messaged her about it on Facebook. She never responded. I'm not even sure if she read it. I feel she really needs to know, so I was thinking of finding her on a day she's working, and going in and telling her. Idk if that would be a bad idea, or not. What do you think?

[1ozzy]

😖😣🥱

[scorpiojo]

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1868533.html

[Boto]

Keep out of it.  You don't know if anything inappropriate went on.  BTW why does a 28 year old have a legal guardian?

[sandyRoe]

He might have been the same age as she was.

Mind your own business.

[Peter Pedant]

no - but you will anyway

[barry1010]

I take every post at face value, not matter how outlandish or bizarre.

You need to stop and think.  If you keep breaking confidences, stirring up trouble, one day somebody will retaliate and you may not come out of it very well.

Mind your own business 

[Peter Pedant]

oh you have told her already by text. no you dont need to do it again.

[Ringlet]

You seem to spend your life meddling in other people's lives, and writing posts about it in Answerbank.  

Leave well alone, and mind your own business.  

[smurfchops]

You are asking us numerous questions.  And we are answering them.  Now take heed.

Mind.your.own.business...!!!

[Cindy1302]

Something I forgot to add us that he has pretty severe autism, and has a childlike personality. When my nephew was about 6, and my friend was 18, they were playing their Nintendo ds's, and they were under a blanket giggling. Like I said, he has a childlike personality so I think they were under the blanket just to be under the blanket. Well my brother in law got kind of mad and told my nephew to get out of the blanket. I was thinking of asking my nephew now that he's 19, what was going on.

[pastafreak]

Please...just leave it! There is NO JUSTIFIABLE REASON for you to bring this up.

[Arksided]

severe autism, and has a childlike personality

Do you also suffer Cindy? and enjoy having a laugh. 😉

[scorpiojo]

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1828763.html

[bednobs]

if you are going to spout such bullcrap to us, you have to have a better memory

[cashier]

Leave it alone, it was eleven years ago and it has nothing to do with you. Stop interfering.

[smurfchops]

Right after my previous answer she commented again.  She is not going to listen to any of us and is just going to keep meddling.

[CJHorse]

I think you should learn to mind your own business

[calmck]

Maybe you should join a convent and take a vow of silence. Then you would be isolated from all the awful things that you perceive people are doing