Is This Guy A Waste Of Space?

[abbeylee90]

This guy I been chatting on snapchat who I met on dating app. He wanted to meet last Saturday but said didn't feel well and tbh I was tired. He said we will rearrange which I was fine with but I haven't heard since.

[abbeylee90]

The guy who asked me to stay at his has just messaged me and said 'Hey you ok'

[naomi24]

Did you answer?

[abbeylee90]

No I haven't 

[abbeylee90]

Now he's messaged again saying how's life 

[naomi24]

He doesn't know you well and he's already asked you to stay over at his house so you know what he's after.  What you do is up to you, abbey, but personally I would put my own self respect before any bloke.

[abbeylee90]

The one who I went on a date with then he said wants something casual couple of weeks ago 

[scorpiojo]

I thought you'd blocked him?

[Pete65]

Abbey, get a grip for goodness sake!

The fellow is not looking for a relationship.

[Clementino]

"something casual" ? probably wants " casual" sex, with no ties....

[abbeylee90]

I know he's not looking for relationship he's already said that but what I mean is do I completely ignore or ask what does he want?

[Clementino]

I think you should ignore

 

[pastafreak]

Ignore.  Ignore. Ignore 

[scorpiojo]

...or tell him you're not interested

..or block him

..or don't reply

[Pete65]

Well, what do you want to do?

[abbeylee90]

Not going to respond no idea why he bothered messaging me.

[Pete65]

Good, Abbey!

Tell him you are not interested.

And a good idea would be to block him on your phone

[elliemay1]

Can you focus on something else for a while abbey and forget about those guys?

[naomi24]

He probably messaged you because he's got no one else around at the moment.   

[abbeylee90]

That why if I open and ignore hopefully he will get the message 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey,can't you just block the guy? I thought you'd already done that.