I'm Really Worried I Have Upset My Friend??

[abbeylee90]

Tonight I went out with my friend for the rugby and we were chatting to these guys and my mum messaged me asking when I was I home and got abit snappy with the guys so my friend messaged me after saying she dint like it and felt I had to pay them back when it wasn't her round. His friend came back in after going outside I apologised right away but friend still wasn't happy and messaged me about it  afterwards.

[abbeylee90]

We're fine that all I said.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you must be relieved - and maybe you won't spend so long dwelling on things in future, you made yourself 'really worried'for nothing!

[abbeylee90]

Hope she goes out with me for the rugby.

[newmodarmy]

Just don't drink too much and don't snap at anyone. I don't understand why your mum ringing you (as she's obviously concerned about you given your issues) would cause you to get angry.

[abbeylee90]

Probably be fine as it a Saturday so don't have work next day.

[abbeylee90]

She asked if I was doing anything the rugby I said I haven't made plans and she said nothing as weather back hope I haven't upset her. 

[newmodarmy]

That doesn't make sense abbey

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, is this a new past-time -  you choose one of your friends and then come on to AB to ask for your help with your latest 'worry'? I hope you haven't upset the (latest) friend, but why didn't you just say something normal such as 'Do you fancy doing anything?'

(PS 'She said nothing as weather back hope I haven't upset her' is one of your rushed sentences that doesn't make much sense.)

[newmodarmy]

Punctuation would help.

[abbeylee90]

She said she not sure if she doing anything as weather bad 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, what your friend said was absolutely fine - yet you'd already said 'I hope I haven't upset her'. You're spending way too long dwelling on all these teeny wee things!

[abbeylee90]

I mean I hope it is not an excuse because of what happened last time

[Neveracrossword]

Well, if it is an excuse, you can't do anything about it - the friend feels what she feels, whatever that is. And if it's not an excuse, if it's something you should just be taking at face value, you're wasting time (again), making yourself 'worry' needlessly!

[abbeylee90]

Just we would be in a pub

[newmodarmy]

Are you saying the weather isn't relevant as you're going to the pub? I assume she's worried about getting there and back if it's snowing

[abbeylee90]

No but anyway I got a cold

[Neveracrossword]

Well, Abbey, you can stop worrying now - and just deal with your cold!