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Anyone Think I Was Rude?

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abbeylee90 | 14:38 Sat 25th Jan 2025 | Family & Relationships
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I saw the friend on the bus yesterday I been on about on here saying since she moved in with her partner we've drifted apart slightly but I ignored her when I didn't see her until just before she got off she was going down the dogs hom during her work time. I feel abit rude not saying anything. 

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How can you ignore someone when you didn't see them till they just got off?

 

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Was sat down but got off around the corner. 

Surely it works both ways. I bet she's not fretting about ignoring you.

 

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She had one of her friends she works with. 

Abbey, I think you were a little bit rude, but I think it doesn't matter in the slightest. You shouldn't waste your time mulling over these things, things that are pretty trivial. 

Aye, just have another slice of pizza.

Or Chinese takeaway?

Yes you were rude.

you come across really jealous of her, going on and on about how she has a partner now.

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I am not jealous of her partner she been with him for years and get on. 

You didnt see her till just before she got off. Did she see you. She would still have got off at her stop wether you said anything or not.

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I haven't got a problem with that I was on before her 

You missed the point. No you were not rude.try to live your life and enjoy it rather than trying to find fault with everything you or your friends do or dont do

Abbey, try to enjoy life a little more instead of wondering about your friends, what they do or don't do or what you say or don't say.  Along life's path you will come across people who you trusted and then they let you down by doing something which maybe hurts you but, hey, that's life and one moves on.
No you were not rude - buses are busy vehicles and one cannot see everyone on board 🚌

Sometimes you don't see somebody as you get on the bus as you are looking for a seat.

You may then see them once you are seated, or only as you get off.

You can even be sitting behind them and not realise.  I sat behind somebody once and thought that looks like xxx from behind.  Only when I got off I discovered it was xxx.

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