Why Is It Not Indifferent To People?

[Blackblood34]

I’m over 20 years old and still a virgin. The question is, why does it matter so much to people? Why, when I say this, do I get so much hate? I don’t understand. Why is it like this? In my family, my aunt got pregnant and had to marry. The marriage wasn’t great. She divorced. My cousin lost her virginity to some guy she was dating for a long time, and after that, he dumped her. I don’t want to be used and thrown away, or get pregnant and be discarded. That’s why I’d rather lose my virginity after marriage. It’s not even about religion, it’s about safety.

I’m just an ordinary girl. I don’t run around shouting "don’t have sex." If you have sex, great, I’m not against it. I wasn’t born from a cabbage. Like everyone, I was born because of sex. Why does being a virgin equal being a “failure” or an “incel”? I’ve been wished rape and things like that. The only thing I consider bad is if someone sleeps with someone else and then dumps them, or if someone cheats. I will judge that. I will call such people ***. That’s all.

[sandyRoe]

Every dog has its own way of walking.

Don't feel you have to behave as others do, just to fit in.

[piggynose]

imho sex is overrated!

[barry1010]

Why tell anyone? It's nobody's business but your own.

[Old_Geezer]

You seem to associate with the wrong crowd.

[davebro3]

The elders of the tribe used to deal with this sort of thing.🙄

[DDIL]

Why are you telling people your sexual business.

Keep it to yourself.

[Atheist]

Blackblood... Who hates you? I might hazard a gues and suggest that it is men. Do you get insulted by women?

[Canary42]

Other virgins won't "hate" you - non-virgins are probably jealous.  

Do your own thing, and *** what other people think 😊

[bookbinder]

Well, you've expressed your opinion, and stated your beliefs, but, so what? Did you want to achieve some kind of result? Did you want someone here to offer some sort of concrete opinion? On the one hand, it's good to see someone letting off steam, but, on the other hand, it's good if the letter-off-of steam can get a result, and then say, well, thank you and goodnight, but that hasn't been achieved here.