Actually Suzyboo you are wrong,I divorced my husband without his knowledge as he had moved abroad without anyones knowledge,even his parents were unaware of where he was. I had to submit proof to the court that no-one knew of his whereabouts(I got a letter to that effect from his parents and his last known address). He actually visited his parents a couple of years ago to find out if he was divorced as he wanted to marry again abroad.You have to wait 5 years before you can do this though,any less and you need the other parties written consent.