Hi sammykittyra,
You can't send a private message to anyone on here. Just post on your original post and hopefully the helpful person will refer back to it and see that you've responded.
i dont know if they do have msn or any other thing like that,
but i know there user name its Whiskeysheri could that help me find them or should i post my email addy so that they can conntact me on that? would that be a good idea?
As has already been stated just reply to your original post. There used to be a rule on answerbank that you could not post private e-mail addresses. This has now been recinded but is still not a good idea as you never know who is looking at the site.