decide want to leave but need a homebase

[puddicat]

have every reason to stay and every reason to go!, have no partner as such, have 2 sons both i think getting fed up with me, to be honest getting fed up with one of them, was always thinking these guys need a base and they dont , i have to wake up to alot about me, gosh i have woken up and yep i am frightened !!

[CheekyChops]

Sorry I don't understand - you want to leave where? How old are your sons?

[hotpink]

i don't understand either

[taperface]

This is a pretty mixed up posting. If your boys are old enough to be left, and have the means to support themselves, then there's no reason why you shouldn't move if you want to, but kids need a good parent for support & encouragement. Teenagers, for instance, can be awful to live with, but you'll only get respect by giving it. You need to have firm boundaries of what's acceptable and what's not - and stick to them, whatever the grumbles. If your children are young, you mustn'e even think of leaving them. The damage'd be terrible. If you need help, contact Get Connected or Social Services.