husbands

[shyblond]

i have been with my fella 4 6 years now and he has asked me if i would contemplate going to a swinging party. Our sex life isnt exactly great. What do you think. Does it ruin a relationship?

[888sally888]

Lakitu - am shocked lol!!!!!!!!

[Lakitu]

Why? LOL

[fagidill]

Ask your KIDS

Their answer i bet is going to be , DISGUSTING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[888sally888]

Lakitu - only joking with you!!!!!!!!

[Lakitu]

^ There's open mindedness at its best

[Ice.Maiden]

So you say, Lakitu - but I defy anyone who's really in love with their partner to say they go to swinging parties. the fact is, at least one of the couple's bored with the other. Think about it!

[Lakitu]

I'm not saying it's a good idea, but nor I don't think it's 'disgusting' either.

[shyblond]

doesnt everyone get bored at some stage though? how do you spice it up though? we have pretty much done everything (toys, in risky areas, role play, costumes etc). I am analysing the relationship see if it is strong enough

[Lindylou]

If you love each other then you should both be enough. Together. With no-one else. Why do you need to keep 'trying' other scenarios? Not knowing your situation it is very difficult to comment. But if it was me - knowing my own situation - I'd bin the b@stard!

[thatsgay]

hell ye go 4 it what harm can it do

[marval]

Well if I were you I would say no. Then I would ask him why he thought swinging was a good idea.
Sort your own relationship out first before you get involved with other people.