Reasons To Be Cheerful - Part Whatever
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I love you.........
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when was the last time you said that or gave a hug to a member of your family or friend ( not your partner)? I never have, never do, cant remember the last time....is it cos i cant remember my mum doing it to me - and she used to moan about my dads family members when they did?
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I am physically tactile but not verbally so.
Never said I loved my mother, but was forced to by mrs sqad, mother then said "I didn't realise sqad had a softer side to him".....bleedin hell....I never said I loved her again. She died last year and I never grieved.
Never knew my father, so no sweat there then, brought up my grandparents who were very working class and I never heard them say "I love you" to anybody.
Use whatever words you like and whatever words make you happy................actions speak louder than words.
Never said I loved my mother, but was forced to by mrs sqad, mother then said "I didn't realise sqad had a softer side to him".....bleedin hell....I never said I loved her again. She died last year and I never grieved.
Never knew my father, so no sweat there then, brought up my grandparents who were very working class and I never heard them say "I love you" to anybody.
Use whatever words you like and whatever words make you happy................actions speak louder than words.
I was brought up to show how we felt about people rather than saying it. My parents loved us to bits and nothing was ever a chore for them regarding us. We often smiled at each other, made a joke and generally all felt good but the love word was never said nor even written in a letter or card.
I put myself out for people to show I care and love them and invite them for meals etc but would never say it. Funnily enough it doesn't bother me one iota to say Je t'aime to hubby!
I put myself out for people to show I care and love them and invite them for meals etc but would never say it. Funnily enough it doesn't bother me one iota to say Je t'aime to hubby!
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My mum never told me she loved me but I always new she did by the way she was , the way she spoke to me and the way she took care of me.Niether did my dad. After she died 12 years ago I made an effort .............kissed my dad each time I saw him and sometimes told him I loved him. Now my sons hug me and kiss me all the time ,one son lives in Holland and we never get off the phone without telling each other I love you......sometimes you need to make the first move....and after you do.....it's easy ..and lovely too
Every time I speak to my kids on the phone or see them in real life.
My parents were dysfunctional, unpleasant people but no need I should be. I want my kids to have the best childhood possible and that includes being under no illusions of how much I love them, so I say it very often, and it makes me feel nice to do so:)
My parents were dysfunctional, unpleasant people but no need I should be. I want my kids to have the best childhood possible and that includes being under no illusions of how much I love them, so I say it very often, and it makes me feel nice to do so:)
