advice please

[suzie1]

a friend of mine wants to pick up her things from her ex husbands house, but is frightened to go on her own, as she is pregnant and he or his family might hurt her, is there such thing as police escort and how does she go on about arranging it. thanks in advance..................(and u little 'know it alls' can keep ur nose out, u know who u are)

[sara3]

does she not have friends she could go with? if she's really stuck, I guess a CPO might go with her.

[dh001]

Suzie, most forces will provide an escort if there is a possibility of a breach of the peace etc. Tell your friend to call her local force who will advise accordingly, if no joy then call their domestic violence unit during office hours who should assist.

[tamborine]

When she phones the police for an escort I suggest she gets a friend to also speak to the police - so they know she has a witness to her request.

I cant be the 'know it all' as I aint little ;)

[dh001]

The calls are recorded.

[suzie1]

thanks guys

[yummy_mummy]

i have the same problem. my husband kicked me out a week after i had the baby and he is refusing to give me my things. its been two months. my parents went to get my things but he said nobody is allowed in his room. we will be taking the police down to get our things.

my aunties did the exact same thing!!! get the police involved.

[suzie1]

yummy mummy, sorry to hear that, my friends husband threw her out for no reason, he just stopped loving her, so he says, she was pregnant at the time, but he didnt know that, and now that he knows he still doesnt want to work at the marriage, he divorced twice prior to her being married to him, she left everything, and is now too scared to go back to get her things,as his mum is a bit peed off with her being pregnant, and they might attack her, my friend took care of her hubby for 2 years while he recoverd from cancer, and this is how he repays her, the b*stard. his dad died when he was a child and has been with his mum from day one and mum is very clingy, she wont let him move forward...its gonna be his loss when she has the baby well good luck to you aswell and hope you get your bits