My Ex Has Contacted My Sister To Ask If She Would Like To See My Boy

[beautiful123]

My ex text me tonight saying she hoped i didnt mind but she has contacted my sister to see if she wants to see my little boy, i don't want her anywhere near him, my sister has 4 boys of her own and to be frank she has treated them like dirt, i know she slags me off to people, my little boy is the love of my life and he is all i have, my sister can be vindictive, she totally ruined my relationship for me with my mother, i have begged my ex not to take him around there but she says he has a right to know his Auntie, i am so scared she will influence him with nasty comments and remarks about me, please dont think i'm being silly, i know what she is capable of.

[dizmouk2009]

Is your ex aware of what you sister is capable of? This is an awful situation to be in and I'm not sure there is alot you can really do. Would it be possible for you to be there when your sister is with your child? I understand that could be awkward but it might be there only way that you could keep an eye on your sister - making sure she doesn't say anything 'nasty' about you. Could it be that your sister is jealous of you and your baby? Could you take your child to see your sister without your ex being there?
Sorry if I'm not being very helpful, unfortuanatly I don't have children therefor I can't really put myself in your position, although I can relate to having annoying family; they again who can't?

[tamborine]

are you male, beautiful123? Odd name for a bloke? The mother will make sure no harm comes to your boy. If you sis does *** you off, am sure your ex has heard it all b4 and can make her own judgements. However, she sees you in her son constantly and that should generate warm feelings for you. All will well for your boy - dont worry.