What could be the problem?...

[bluebreezz]

this guy who is about 42...(i m in my 20's); why does he try to ignore me at all cost all of a sudden? granted, he is married and is just an aquaintance. i never gave him any idea i was interested in his friendship, but he use to chat with me and always pleasant and kind. now a days for past few months, he ignores me. he does not ask me to help with any project our group is having or try to involve me in anything. when i see him and he sees me at far distance, he pretends i m not there. i m also great friends with his wife. she talks with me and we get along great. whenever his wife as me to do anything that would benefit the both of them, he does not even say thank you or acknowledge it. he pretends i m not even there. only in desparate situations, he calls me to help with something. anyway, he is all buddy buddy with this other friend (who is also female abt 35 - i m also very close friend with this female)...he talks to her more since me and this female has become friends. then when me and her are standing and laughing he comes and interrupts our conversation talking only to her and not say a word to me, then leaves. he passes me by and says nothing. this is so weird bcuz he use to find ways to get me to notice him (as friend, make jokes, etc.) what is going on?..possibly?

Yesterday, when i was talking to the other female (35) , he called he to talk with her before i could chat with her...then he was shaking her hand a long time..and chatting to her, so i left, bcuz i could not wait longer to chat with her. He also is friends with everyone else..does not really speak with me..very stand-offish.

[bluebreezz]

y r u misjudging me?,,,i dont have a romantic interest in him

[NoMercy]

Totally uncalled for, Teram. This is a question and answer site and regardless of what impression you get from a poster, you don't need to hurl insults.

[NoMercy]

I can't really argue with what Butch has said - you do seem inordinately interested in whom he talks to and doesn't talk to. A tad obsessive even. However, he's married, so don't go there.

[B00]

There's a 20 year old age gap. What on earth do you have in common with this guy anyway?

[cazzz1975]

maybe his wife has not felt comfortable with the "friendship" if you carry a torch for this guy it will be obvious to her by the way you act/look at him ect. she has probably told him she is not comfortable and he has agreed to avoid you to appease her.

[woofgang]

simple answer let it go...the whys don't matter, I assume he is a work colleague...just let it go. The sooner that you learn not to take feelings and insecurities to work, the happier your working like will be.

[cazzz1975]

agree with woof, its not pleasant but just move on and accept it, if you avoid interaction with him you will feel happier in the long run.

[China Doll]

I swear I answered this earlier.... :-S