That's a lovely top shaney but I do know what you mean about the colour of things in shop lighting. A lightweight coat I bought from debenhams last spring looked dark khaki/green but sometimes in daylight it looks brown. Either way I like it, I'm into 'sludge' :o) I never go to Asda & I don't think to look at the george clothes until someone mentions them. My hairdresser has some nice things from there.
Buy something warm to wear Jude, end May & early June can be very cold.
I think your dream was saying don't be a doormat, lol. No, I'm just kidding, haha...I don't think you'd be that daft. Actually in my teens I had a lovely boyfriend, who was only that, & everytime he wandered off for a week (or a few weeks) with someone who'd caught his eye I was hurt. But he always came back and I think I had the best deal, we were friends for years, they only got a short time before he got bored :o)