It's a shame mazie, I didn't get to read half of what the posts said, but I can assure you, the few I did see where full of nastiness and vitriol when my daughter tried to defend herself. I find it amusing that one of the main posters, Cazz1975 called my daughter 'barking mad' and yet said she would do exactly the same, have a go back if everybody was on to her. I'll leave you to draw your own conclusions about the people on here and this site.
And for the record, I didn't call her barking mad for defending herself, I called her barking mad for her fairy tale menus, which got bigger and grander as the months went on.
I've been on the site a long time painterman and have never experienced any nastiness or vitriol from any other member of the site. Then again, to my knowledge, I've never given anyone a reason to be rude to me.