Inadequate info about my man...

[joe_s_angel]

I happen to have met my soldier just recently. but all i know about him is his first name, date of birth, rank and very little about his unit. Is there a website that i can log into and find more details about him?

[ummmm]

What's recent though? A week? Month? You have to be careful you don't appear stalkerish.

[Prudie]

So you only know his first name? Surely you mean by that his surname then?

[maclarencat]

How old are you joe ? This sounds like a very young person.

[joe_s_angel]

ummmm it is not stalkerish at all here.... i am just heads over heels in those feelings......

[boxtops]

Live with it, angel - just enjoy it while he's here, make the most of it.

[ummmm]

I said 'appear' stalkerish....

Like someone else mentioned, if you find out info how are going to explain how you found it out?

[maclarencat]

I still think this you sound very young and should be careful. If he doesnt want you to know his last name I would beconcerned that his intentions are not the same as yours. Could be he just thinks it was a bit of fun. How mant times have you been out together?

[joe_s_angel]

boxtops i agree i will just live the moment
ummmm you don't seem to get my point, he didn't prevent me from searching. he even told me about some youtube stuff that i can check, so it is ok here... he just doesn't want me to get hurt, that is all.

[ummmm]

So if he doesn't mind why can't you ask him the questions?

That's what most people do when the meet....ask lot's of questions...

[maclarencat]

Why are you not telling us how old you are? Could it be you are underage? Maybe that is why he is not telling you his last name and I would like to bet you dont know where he lives and the only contact is either email or mobile phone. If I am right keep away you will get hurt.

[DTCwordfan]

now that is being really cynical, helen (lol) - and you chide me!!!

[joe_s_angel]

come on guys.... you are giving me a hard time here.lol. No i am not that young, we are the same age, and he is the truest person i have ever met.
May be i was not clear in my question. he did not refuse to give me his last name, i just did not ask for it when i felt he is very cautious with the info he gives me. We are taking it slow, that is it, as he is not sure what tomorrow could bring.... it is just me who is in a rush, may be... If you have been in love before you would know what i am talking about here

[maclarencat]

Well I guess you have had your answer then. No there is no way of finding this information witout asking him.

[joe_s_angel]

thank you guys...may be i just needed to get it off my chest :))

[DTCwordfan]

not much difference and mine was more cynical than sarcastic as I meant iron with no contempt.

[joe_s_angel]

redhelen..... rubbish about love???????????