If the gauge has numbers on it, it should read around 1. Generally if it is a gauge that reads up to 4 bars maximum, '1' is at 10 o'clock but it's the number that is important, not the position in relation to a clockface. However, agreed it is too high.
The most likely reason for the pressure increasing is that the 'filling loop' is not fully disconnected from the cold water supply and tiny amounts of fresh water are entering the system over time. Fortunately that is easy to put right - find the manual, identify the filling loop and check the filling valves (2) are completely off. Normally the filling loop is completely disconnected from the cold water supply except when being used to refill (which is only necessary when pressure has dropped below 1).
There is no need to panic about excessive pressure - it is not dangerous because there is a pressure relief valve. This normally kicks in if the pressure goes above 4 bar (and water leaks from the overflow valve outside somewhere - it this happening?). However I agree that you do need to get to the bottom of why it is increasing.
As a short term measure to get the pressure down, you could bleed a little water from one rad - it doesn't matter which - to allow you the necessary time to work out what is happening without having to pay silly rates to put right what is probably a simple issue.
Report back when you have tried it - there are other things that could be wrong.