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Boo - I dont take offence to your post, however judgemental you might sound! I am angry with myself for going with the flow and allowing the cat in the first place. We have been arguing all day about this.
I was inclined to keep the cat and give it a lovely home. But, having spoken with my partner properly, we realise that the animal would be better off with the sister who has kept cats before.
My partners motivation to get the kitten was because her 4 year old really wanted one and we thought it would be a good idea to teach him responsibilities as well as for company etc... The reality of fleas and the fact that the entire house has had to be hoovered, washed etc 2-3 times a day has made her re-assess, are we really the best people to have a kitten at this point in time. I will ensure that the cat has everything it needs at the sisters, I am fronting the vets bills and food etc for the first few months as a gesture. I am sorry people like me seriously annoy you, I assure I am a very caring and responsible person and I feel that I have let myself down by not putting my foot down in the first place.