A very common problem JJ, when the wrong type of tap is used.
I guess you have a gravity hot water system (immersion cylinder in cupboard?)
The cold will be from the mains, hence overpowering the hot.
These mixers can restrict (strangle) the hot supply. Apart from replacing the tap, all I can suggest is either an electric pump on the hot supply (could be some expensive faffing about),
or .... get a plumber to fit a water pressure reducer to the cold supply.
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