Sadly Bigspoon, it's all part of growing up and unfortunately it will probably happen again. My first really serious girl decided she'd rather go to Aus with her family then stop with me. The second resulted in marriage and seven years of hell before we finally split, but don't worry spoons it usually works out in the end it just takes time, Number three and I have been together for thirty years and she still makes me feel ten feet tall when we go out together.