I Sen't A Message To Someone I Did Not Had Any Mutual Friends With So Did They Read It Or It Went Into Their Others Folder?

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

And that now recently we have a mutual friend so would that message be transferred from others to inbox or would it remain in their others folders?

[RATTER15]

I think it would remain in the "others" folder, not sure though.

[DSJ]

???

[bookbinder]

Send them another message and ask them.

[RATTER15]

DSJ, I think you will find its a Facebook question.

[scorpiojo]

:-)

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

please guys tell me?
if you know

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

would this time the message will go in her inbox as now we have "a" mutual friend?

[RATTER15]

Yes, I believe it would go into her in box.

[EcclesCake]

Assuming you are using the messaging service on Facebook, the message will only go to who you sent it to.

If you have posted something on their wall then it is difficult to say who may have seen it as the privacy settings are complicated and can be set to please each user.

[boxtops]

are we talking Facebook here, or email?

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

yeah I sent that message on facebook! :)
so please guys help me!
that would this time it would go into her inbox?

[EcclesCake]

Was it a private message or a post on your friend's wall?

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

a private message yes!

[EcclesCake]

Then it is private and only the recipient will receive it.

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

but had she gotten any notification of that?
I mean before we had a mutual friend would have she received a notification of that?

and also that
would she receive any notification now that we have a mutual friend?

[AB Editor]

"would she receive any notification now that we have a mutual friend?"

You might be suggested as someone to add because of your mutual friendship.

Your old message probably won't pop out of the "other" field.

Are they someone who would want you to contact them without being direct friends? If not, they may have changed their settings to reflect this. Facebook recently reminded everyone to change their privacy settings.

[EcclesCake]

When I receive private messages on Facebook I get a little red flag pop up telling me I have messages.

I sometimes see that 'X' is now friends with 'Y' but I do believe that what I see is dependent on their security settings.

If you've been naughty and think you may be found out take this as a lesson about social media and be careful in the future!

[AB Editor]

Without mutual friend: certainly the "other" box

With mutual friend: not necessarily the "other" box, but that's likely to be, based on their security settings.

You can pay to deliver a message to someone's inbox I believe.

Is it important?

[carrust]

I think the OP has sent an inappropriate message to a female:-) Look as if he could be in the sh1t.....

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

no stop judging alright!
it's just an apology message
because i sent her a message about how i feel
and now that it's in the others
i want to apologize to her and move on!