I think all your references are a little before her time, dougie. Maybe you're living in the past.
You've done all you can, DarkPhoenix. Let it be. Don't push it. Hopefully you will stay as friends but I know that's not always easy when you have feelings for someone. If not, you'll get by with a little help from your friends. On the other hand if she changes her mind you can ask her are you ready for love?