Gosh. All these politics over somebody who is supposed to be a friend. . You've just given me the ideal excuse for avoiding Facebook like the plague. Can't understand why friendship has been turned into some kind of political blackmail - i.e. if you're not my friend on Facebook, you've lost face. It rather amazes me that people can't understand how they're being socially manipulated by peer pressure - seems more like status seeking than friendship to me, i.e. the more friends you have, the more social kudos you're supposed to have. We all know it's nonsense.