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Well, I spoke with this woman and she admitted it was HER fault as she had not had THE CONVERSATION with me, NOR sent the email I should have received before being sent the 'we have a verbal agreement' email. She sent 'the one I should have... received before' to me when she received my stern email, with an apology for ballsing up (my words, not hers; that would not be very professional!). When I spoke to her, she agreed I would not have to pay the mentioned fee, as long as I gave her a call to discuss the situation, should I wish to cancel within the stated period. I can cancel and not incur the fee, as long as I let them know before I cancel. Apparently that is what the email meant to say and they are sorry for any misunderstanding. Especially as I am a valued customer.
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Thanks for the replies and advice!!