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This is all so very different from when my kids were in school, and my older grand-children. Also very different from the school where my two youngest go, which is an excellent school, with rules and expectations, but nothing on this scale. It is early in the year i agree, but it has been going on for some years now, since it became an academy and a new head came. she instituted these very strict rules and since then behaviour, bullying, drug and alcohol use (in school) has got worse year on year. So has it been effective - no it hasn't. Enthusiastic children want to let it me known when they know something, that's totally normal behaviour, a good teacher knows how to keep this in control and still have a productive lesson without them all sitting in silence until asked to speak. Believe me i have taught and mentored student nurses, midwives and medical students, both in a class situation and individually and i would have got nothing from them with this kind of regime. And don't go thinking just because they are young adults their potential to misbehave is less than that of kids. It is not. My grand-daughter wants to learn, but her head is now full of what if this is wrong, is it ok to do that, is my skirt ok, believe me the list is very long and very comprehensive. i would find it difficult to remember the intricacies of it all. she is not the only one either. She does not have much time now before she has to take her gcse's so there is not much use sitting on it and thinking oh well it will all be ok in a few weeks, or a few months. she is a pretty well behaved 15 year old actually, and when the deputy head saw her in isolation he was mortified because it was not what he expected of her. when she explained how she had ended up there, he appeared to be a bit concerned actually at what appeared to be the unfairness of some of these strikes. their only cause for hope is that the current head is leaving next month, and they have heard he is taking over. he is, apparently a very nice kind man, and very approachable, so they are all hoping he is biding his time until he is in charge and the regime may be loosened enough to take into account these are children, and not robots. I agree that learning the principles of good behaviour are essential for a future out there, but sadly this is not the way.