In What Way Do You Become Very Ill It You Stay In A Job You Don't Like Or Can't Do?

[abbeyleigh]

An employer has told me before when failing my probation its not fair on me or them and a carers advisor said you can become very ill

[Bobbisox1]

You maybe become anxious which in turn makes you feel Ill?

[bobbinwales]

It's a polite way of saying it would be better for both parties if you found another job that your more suited to

[pastafreak]

Bob...it seems an unusual and unconventional way to say it. A bit alarming.

[calmck]

That's what I thought. Could it be taken that one should get a doctor to sign off for sickness rather than be fired? Have you failed this probation or a previous one? Your previous post did not say you had failed. You need to ask your supervisor to explain properly what you are doing well and where and how are you failing. Without fully understanding what you are doing wrong you cannot correct your perceived failings

[douglas9401]

Maybe Abbey brings out the 'unusual and uncoventional' in people.

[abbeyleigh]

He said I was lacking energy and not sure if it is for me

[douglas9401]

Ah, they mean buck your ideas up or move on.

[Barsel]

What kind of work have you been doing Abbey?

[Neveracrossword]

Abbeyleigh, you've not been particularly happy, for all sorts of reasons, in any of the last few jobs. Maybe you should sit down and work out exactly what kind of work you would like to do, could see yourself making progress in and so on? You could then work towards applying for those, seeing if you need to get a few qualifications, acquire certain skills etc.

[abbeyleigh]

Warehouse or cleaning

[bobbinwales]

okay, and what was the jobs where an employer said its not fair on you or them

[abbeyleigh]

Stock controller

[Tilly2]

The dental receptionist job must have been better for you.

[bobbinwales]

its true that you can become ill if you hate your job and dread going in or come home always worrying about your day... but are there any bits of work you do enjoy and feel your good at

[Bobbisox1]

Abbeyleigh , this could be a wake up call , you’re young, think of what you’d like to do job wise and find out what it takes to do it, you can set yourself a goal to achieve whatever you want to

[abbeyleigh]

It wasn't to far to get to and boring

[Bobbisox1]

Did you like being a dental nurse? You could try it again and work towards getting the dental nurse qualifications

[Bobbisox1]

Or what’s the job that you liked?

[Neveracrossword]

Are there any jobs, any areas you've worked in that you particularly liked? It must be quite a while now since you left school,maybe something you tried years ago will look more interesting, more likely as a career, now?

[abbeyleigh]

Dental receptionist was to hard. I want to warehouse prefably Monday to Friday